So... if you liked this girl almost allll of the last school year, and knew she liked you back, but you both were in seventh grade and decided not to go out. So yeah you still flirted and talked and it was cute but you didn%26#039;t really text her because you always lost your phone and just weren%26#039;t really a texter in general, not that it mattered because you guys talked at school. You keep on liking her until school ends.
So then the summer goes by, you don%26#039;t talk to her once. School%26#039;s back, you have no classes together... you see her frequently in the halls but never talk. Then, one day, out of the blue she goes up and talks to you for a bit you SMILE AND ITS HELLA CUTE %26lt;3 while you%26#039;re the type of guy who has hardly any friends who are girls and who hardly ever smiles... you give her this BIG HEARTMELTING SMILE. :] After this, you change your bike path so you%26#039;re on the same as hers. A week goes by, and you don%26#039;t talk, until the last school day you have before valentines day, she gives you a valentine. No biggie, she gave them to a lot of her friends but since you hadn%26#039;t talked in a while it was a little unexpected. About five days later, over break, she texts you and you actually reply... she gets 21 messages from you in a 24 hour period, you get 19 from her. Now break%26#039;s over, and you%26#039;ve been at school one day, she hasn%26#039;t talked to you but it%26#039;s only been one day.
1) if you were in this situation, would it be possible that you still liked her? (cuase i still like him but I didn%26#039;t realize it until I spoke to him)
2) Would you think she liked you back? You%26#039;re not what you would call a ladies man... you%26#039;ve never had a gf, then again you%26#039;re only in eighth grade. In fact, you really don%26#039;t talk to girls much, and really don%26#039;t have any (not sure but don%26#039;t think so... maybe some from camp and a couple from school) friends that are girls...
3) WHAT SHOULD I DO TO GET HIM TO LIKE ME?? Tomorrow is 8th graders open gym day were the 8th graders can go play b-ball... and I have to take pictures... I%26#039;m 100% sure he%26#039;ll be there. Any suggestions? I already know what I%26#039;m wearing, lol. ALSO... I want to be able to talk to him in the halls more, at least say hi. How, and what do I say?
THANKS FOR READING THIS INSANE AMMOUNT OF TEXT I WILL BE ETERNALLY GRATEFUL TO WHOEVER ANSWERS :]
QUESTION FOR BOYS (and girls. But boys%26#039;ll help better)?
You two are still young and have plenty of time to spark up an intimate relationship.
Tips?
1) Be patient, don%26#039;t make it obvious that you%26#039;re trying to get him to like you
2) Spark up conversations. *Key*
3) Hang out here and there, preferably just the two of you if you trust him, for example- the movie theatre...or maybe even just to hang out after school :)
I put *key* under conversing with one another because it%26#039;s a great way of building a solid relationship...it%26#039;s also fun and exciting, you get to know each other more as well, which is important in getting into a serious relationship.
Like someone said earlier, he seems like he%26#039;s playing it safe. Obviously you make him happy which is really good.
I strongly suggest you start talking to him a lot more, and just let time work itself out and see what happens.
Good luck :)
*edit: %26quot;If a guy likes you, he%26#039;ll make it happen.
Just be cool and do your own thing, dont wait around and obsess over it.%26quot;
While some guys may make it seem that shyness is never a factor for them, there are the masses that always kept their opinion to themselves. People who never found the confidence to talk won%26#039;t talk until they find the motivation.
If you talk to him first, you can become his motivation to open up, understand the process? :]
Again, good luck ^_^
QUESTION FOR BOYS (and girls. But boys%26#039;ll help better)?
If a guy likes you, he%26#039;ll make it happen.
Just be cool and do your own thing, dont wait around and obsess over it.
this isnt much help, buttttt that sounds adorable(:
uhmm.. keep talking to him. but dont get clinging. just when you see him smile, and keep walking. if he wants to talk, he%26#039;ll say something. when he texts you first, thats a GREAT sign, he likes you. if you talk at night, say %26quot;goodnight(:%26quot; and if he says sweet dreams, thats also a GREAT sign.
pay attention to little things. but dont be too sure. boys are very confusing! trust meee/: but its worth it, i promise.
we all would like a guy to sweep us of our feet or like admit his eternal and undying love Notebook style in the rain, but trust me, that never happens. If he doesn%26#039;t do anything about it, then let it go, unless you want to make the first move. Guys need time; they%26#039;re more vulnerable than they let on.
This is ridiculously cute...Chances are he likes you, but if she was shy in the 7th grade, he%26#039;s prob still shy, and guys don%26#039;t put themselves out there unless they%26#039;re 99% they won%26#039;t get rejected, especially at that age, and his personality type. I was similar. U gotta make it pretty clear u like him for him to respond to u.
ok first of all: i don%26#039;t think you%26#039;re being too obsessed. i had this HUGE crush in my eighth grade year, and the guy lived in my neighborhood like twenty feet from the little park that%26#039;s in the middle, so me and my best friend (who also had a crush on him) would go sit in the corner of the park in front of his house and hope he would like, wander outside, then we would talk loudly and laugh and stuff and see if he would look over at us. and he was in our creative writing class and we would try and talk to him and stuff and i think we were a little obvious... especially my friend when she finally got a myspace he was the first person she added as a friend.... haha. so back to you%26#039;re problem.
i think if he liked you that much before, he%26#039;s still going to have some feelings for you. if you start talking to him a lot and stuff he%26#039;s bound to like you a lot more. chances are, the more time you spend with him, the more he%26#039;ll like you. just keep becoming friends and hopefully, if he%26#039;s even a little bit normal, he%26#039;ll ask you out eventually. it might take a while, especially if you said he%26#039;s not a %26quot;ladies man%26quot; he%26#039;ll be worried about being rejected.
good luck!!!
