ok he has a hard life, his mom does drugs buys everything in front of him and does them in front of him, she has no job she can barely keep one for 2 weeks they live in apartments with barely anything, his dads in jail he has a sister who actually makes money and has a boyfriend and he can live with her
but every time i talk about my girlfriend he gets sad and feels lonely, everything he see's our friends with there boyfriend or girlfriends he just gets into a mood of loneliness, he hasn't had a girlfriend or anything really, he thinks he doesnt have friends but he really does
he makes me mad, thinking there's no way to change his life hes in 10th grade and he says he should just kill himself to get out of every ones way, which i think is stupid, he acts like a quiter, he says he cant change his life and that theres no choice but i think that's stupid because theres always a way to try and change your life my girlfriend is doing it, my parents did it, but he doesn't think so, he complains i don't know how bad his life is, i don't but still he can try
am i right?
i just dont want him being like this it brings me and everyone else down
especially him
what do i do? what can i say to try and show him that he can change his life and have a great future
My friends gonna drive himself insanee helppp?
Let him know that suicide is NEVER the answer. He's only what, 15? 16? I can sort of relate to how he's doing and all that, but tell him how stupid ending yourself can be. Be specific, remind him about how EVERYONE goes through ups and downs, and how even people who are in the slums and dumps can STILL go ahead and maintain healthy, successful, and even rich lifestyles! Bring up the fact that he's only (whatever age he is) and that he hasn't even seen how fulfilling life after school can be. If he stays away from drugs and crap like that and works hard at what he's good at, then he can go on to do a lot of things in and after his college life (if he decides to go to a college or university). And one last thing, let him know you have him as a friend. A guy like that NEEDS to know that kind of thing.
Trust me. :D
My friends gonna drive himself insanee helppp?
I know it's probably really hard for you. But try to be in his shoes for a second. And that's his whole life, and that's what he sees and goes through on a daily basis. So give him a little slack but DON'T let him give up. Try to encourage him that things are gonna get better and that his future can be bright. And just be a good friend to him :)
